Reading Habits

When do you read? 

The answer to this question has changed over time for me. For most of my life, I simply read all the time (meaning at any moment that I could sneak in even a few minutes.) 

While my son was growing up, my time to read did lessen somewhat, but I still read way more than most people do. These days I tend to finish 10-12 books a month, with one of those usually being nonfiction.

The most common time you will see me reading now is during mealtime. From childhood, I always had the urge to grab a book while I was eating. I had to suppress that during family dinner time, but now that I am single with an adult child, I almost always read when I eat.

Outside of that, my reading times are pretty random. I do read in the evenings or on weekends, but I also watch TV or movies and put together jigsaw puzzles, so I’m not as single-minded about reading as in the past.

I’m interested to know what other people’s reading habits are and how they have changed over time, and I would love it if you left me a comment with your thoughts on this.

Every Time You Go Away

Every Time You Go Away by Beth Harbison

Willa Bennett’s husband Ben passed away three years ago while he was up at their beach house to do some work on it. She has not really been living her life since, including not being very present for her teenage son, Jamie. Now she is heading to the beach house to get it ready to sell, hoping it will help her to move on. Once she arrives, she is surprised to encounter her husband’s ghost.

When it turns out there is a lot of work to do before she can sell, she summons her son Jamie, her best friend Kristin, and Kristin’s daughter Kelsey to come for the summer. Even with their company, she continues to see Ben and is even able to talk with him, reminiscing about their life together and how she is dealing with being on her own.

I enjoyed this book so much. The writing was engaging and emotional, with well-developed, relatable characters. The touch of the supernatural was handled very well–I loved the interactions between Willa and Ben. For me, it was a satisfying story about moving through grief and finding healing.

The Sandy Page Bookshop

The Sandy Page Bookshop by Hannah McKinnon

Leah is fresh out of a job and an engagement, so she moves back to her Cape Cod hometown. Once there, she impulsively decides to rent and renovate a historic home so that she can open a bookshop. A cast of characters forms around her, some of whom we get to know quite well as there are chapters told from their point of view. 

There’s Lucy, a teenager whose older sister has been severely injured in a car accident; Eudora, a widow who has become afraid to leave her home; and Luke, a local woodworker who knew Leah in high school. 

I enjoyed this book very much. The characters are likable and the bookstore is a charming setting. I would definitely recommend this when you are looking for a lighthearted, feel-good read.

The Emma Project

The Emma Project by Sonali Dev – The Rajes #4

There was a lot to like about this book, which was the conclusion to The Rajes series by Sonali Dev. I liked how she used the theme from Emma but updated it for a modern audience with a plot about two people who do good works for society in different ways. I also liked the gender reversal of the Emma and Knightley characters, much like she did in the first book with Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy. And I was glad that Esha got some screen time, so to speak, although I find her whole situation to be quite odd.

If you are a fan of Austen adaptations, I would definitely recommend giving this whole series a try. I do think it’s best to read them in order because the cast of characters grows with each book, and it is helpful to know what has happened with the other characters in previous books.

A Wrinkle in Time

A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L’Engle – Time Quintet #1

A Wrinkle in Time, winner of the Newberry Medal in 1963, is the story of the adventures in space and time of Meg, Charles Wallace, and Calvin O’Keefe (athlete, student, and one of the most popular boys in high school). They are in search of Meg’s father, a scientist who disappeared while engaged in secret work for the government on the tesseract problem.

I don’t know why I didn’t read this as a young girl; somehow I missed it. Reading it now for the first time, I wanted to love it, but I just didn’t. It seemed like a pale imitation of C.S. Lewis’s Space Trilogy (I loved the first two books of that series as a teenager), and it fell flat for me. I realize that may be an unpopular opinion, and I wouldn’t want to squelch anyone’s love for the book. I just didn’t connect with it.

Top Books from the First Half of 2025

I thought it would be fun to look back over the first six months of the year and see what books rose to the top for me.  

Here are my top ten fiction books for the first half of 2025:

  • Legends & Lattes by Travis Baldree
  • Ordinary Life: Stories by Elizabeth Berg
  • Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret by Judy Blume
  • Found in a Bookshop by Stephanie Butland
  • The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky
  • More or Less Maddy by Lisa Genova
  • Forever, Interrupted by Taylor Jenkins Reid
  • Bonded in Death by J.D. Robb
  • Lethal Prey by John Sandford
  • The Taste of Ginger by Mansi Shaw

And here are my top 5 nonfiction books:

  • Followers Under 40 by Rachel Gilmore and Kris Sledge
  • Baby Dinosaurs on the Ark? by Janet Kellogg Ray
  • The Color of Compromise by Jemar Tisby
  • How to Fight Racism by Jemar Tisby
  • God and the Gay Christian by Matthew Vines

Have you read any of these, and what did you think of them?

The Bride Test

The Bride Test by Helen Hoang is book two of The Kiss Quotient series.

This is a fun romance with a quirky twist and a few spicy scenes. The author is autistic and drew on her own experience while writing this series in which each book has an autistic main character. I had read the first and third books in the series but missed this one, so I wanted to fill in the gap.

I really enjoyed this story about Khai Diep, who believes that he has no feelings and is incapable of having a relationship. His mother takes the initiative to bring a woman from Vietnam to the United States to be his fiancee, giving her the summer to convince him to marry her. Their relationship has a lot of twists and turns and some miscommunications, some of which are due to the issues brought up by Khai’s autism.

I think this whole series has great autistic representation, along with an entertaining romance.

What I’m Reading – August 2025

What I’m Reading Now

The Bride Test by Helen Hoang – The Kiss Quotient #2 – I somehow read books 1 & 3 of this series but missed book 2! This is a fun romance featuring an autistic main character written by an autistic author.

What I Recently Finished

Fiction

  • Yoga Pant Nation by Laurie Gelman – Class Mom #3
  • Happiness for Beginners by Katherine Center
  • Flirting Lessons by Jasmine Guillory
  • After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid
  • Incense and Sensibility by Sonali Dev – The Rajes #3
  • The Lost for Words Bookshop by Stephanie Butland – Lost for Words #1
  • How to Find Love in a Bookshop by Veronica Henry
  • The Nantucket Restaurant by Pamela Kelley
  • Winter in Paradise by Elin Hilderbrand – Paradise #1
  • What Happens in Paradise by Elin Hilderbrand – Paradise #2
  • More Days at the Morisaki Bookshop by Satoshi Yagisawa – Days at the Morisaki Bookshop #2

Nonfiction

  • Becoming the Pastor’s Wife: How Marriage Replaced Ordination as a Woman’s Path to Ministry by Beth Allison Barr

What I Added to My TBR

  • The Other Side of Now by Paige Harbison
  • The Charm Offensive by Alison Cochrun – The Charm Offensive #1
  • Tilda Is Visible by Jane Tara
  • The Love Haters by Katherine Center
  • The Forever House by Veronica Henry
  • Right Place, Right Time by Ali McNamara
  • The Sandy Page Bookshop by HannahMcKinnon
  • Introducing Mrs Collins by Rachel Parris
  • Drunk on Love by Jasmine Guillory
  • The Wedding Date by Jasmine Guillory – The Wedding Date #1
  • The Proposal by Jasmine Guillory – The Wedding Date #2
  • The Wedding Party by Jasmine Guillory – The Wedding Date #3
  • Royal Holiday by Jasmine Guillory – The Wedding Date #4
  • Party of Two by Jasmine Guillory – The Wedding Date #5
  • While We Were Dating by Jasmine Guillory – The Wedding Date #6
  • The Storytellers by Sue Heath
  • Something to Look Forward To: Fictions by Fannie Flagg

TBR Stats/Updates

  • I currently have 165 books on my TBR. Of those, 11 are nonfiction and 155 are fiction.
  • Since I completed my 25 in 2025 challenge, I created a focused reading list of 25 books I would like to read by the end of the year. So far, I have read 6 of those books.
  • I have read 80 books so far this year (my goal was 75).
  • I read 1 nonfiction book this month, which is my goal. My total for the year so far is 8.
  • Here are some more stats from StoryGraph:

Feel free to add me as a friend on Goodreads or StoryGraph. I’m always looking for new recommendations!

What I Read This Week – August 2nd

I finished three books this week. Here are my super short but sweet reviews!

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After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid

I loved the journey this book took me on. I am so glad I started reading her books and that there are still more for me to catch up on! 

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The Nantucket Restaurant by Pamela Kelley

I always enjoy Pamela Kelley, and this was no exception. This was a great, light-hearted read.

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What Happens in Paradise by Elin Hilderbrand

This was okay, kept my interest just enough that I do plan to read the third book in the trilogy hoping for some closure.

What I Read This Week – July 26th

This week I only finished 2 books. I try to read 1 nonfiction book every month, and this week I read my nonfiction selection for July. Even though I do want to read nonfiction, I still have a mental block that makes me resist picking it up and diving in, so having the objective goal of 1 per month helps me stay accountable.

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Becoming the Pastor’s Wife: How Marriage Replaced Ordination as a Woman’s Path to Ministry by Beth Allison Barr

This book gives an account of how we have seen women in ministry treated in the Bible to medieval times to the present. The present/recent history deals mainly with the SBC, a conservative denomination in the US.

I have to admit I skimmed some of it, but I did find it very interesting how women have been moved out of leadership roles into often unpaid, non-leader ministry, especially in terms of the role of the pastor’s wife.

If you are looking for a good discussion of women in ministry, this is a good choice. For more general info on how women are treated in conservative circles, check out her earlier book The Making of Biblical Womanhood, which I highly recommend.

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Flirting Lessons by Jasmine Guillory

I loved this one! The characters were so well done and the relationships (both friendly and romantic) were so realistic. I really enjoyed her writing style, and I appreciated that even when there were miscommunications, they weren’t cringe-inducing but instead opportunities for growth and honesty.